Confidence Through Sisterhood
For New York Epsilon Farrah Agyeman, Pi Beta Phi has been more than a sisterhood—it's been a space for self-discovery, cultural pride and connection. Read on to learn how Pi Phi helped her find confidence and feel truly seen.
I'm a senior majoring in business and management at Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute (RPI). I love expressing my creativity through singing, dancing, reading, drawing and baking.
I was drawn to Pi Phi because of the welcoming vibes and the strong sense of community. For New York Epsilon specifically, the authenticity of the members stood out to me the most. Seeing them being their most genuine and passionate selves helped me envision myself as part of the chapter. Now, I can't imagine my life without them.
The following year, I became the president of ASA. With the passion and love I have for ASA, I was able to integrate that into my Pi Phi experience, effectively combining these two worlds. I've had the opportunity to share different aspects of my culture with my chapter, and some of my sisters have even attended events like our Africa Night and Night of Rhythm. It's been so much fun getting to share my culture with others and seeing them embrace it with enthusiasm. This journey has not only enriched my Pi Phi experience but has also allowed me to grow and connect with my sisters on a deeper level.
Something I wish I would have known earlier in life would be the act of forgiveness—for other people and most importantly for yourself. I struggle with forgiving mistakes—especially my own—and I wish I could tell my younger self that it's okay. Forgiveness is so important; it’s the only way to grow and become better.
I didn't always feel comfortable being my most authentic self. There were times when I held back out of fear of not fitting in or being judged. But Pi Phi helped me grow out of that fear. The support and encouragement from my sisters gave me the confidence to step into my own and embrace who I truly am. This growth has been transformative, making my collegiate experience richer and more fulfilling.
Tell us about yourself.
I'm a senior majoring in business and management at Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute (RPI). I love expressing my creativity through singing, dancing, reading, drawing and baking.
What drew you to Pi Phi?
I was drawn to Pi Phi because of the welcoming vibes and the strong sense of community. For New York Epsilon specifically, the authenticity of the members stood out to me the most. Seeing them being their most genuine and passionate selves helped me envision myself as part of the chapter. Now, I can't imagine my life without them.How does your identity shape your Pi Phi experience?
My identity has played a significant role in shaping my Pi Phi experience and making it truly beneficial for me. As a proud West African woman and the daughter of Ghanaian immigrants, showcasing the love I have for my culture is incredibly important to me. When I first joined Pi Phi, I was the treasurer of RPI’s African Student Association (ASA). At that time, my senior advisor, who was an active member of Pi Phi, showed me I could balance both roles.The following year, I became the president of ASA. With the passion and love I have for ASA, I was able to integrate that into my Pi Phi experience, effectively combining these two worlds. I've had the opportunity to share different aspects of my culture with my chapter, and some of my sisters have even attended events like our Africa Night and Night of Rhythm. It's been so much fun getting to share my culture with others and seeing them embrace it with enthusiasm. This journey has not only enriched my Pi Phi experience but has also allowed me to grow and connect with my sisters on a deeper level.
Who—or what—consistently inspires you?
My mom; she is one of the most hardworking and independent women I know. She has inspired me to be a kind person and to keep pushing myself to be the best I can be.
What is something you wish you would have known earlier in life, and why?
Something I wish I would have known earlier in life would be the act of forgiveness—for other people and most importantly for yourself. I struggle with forgiving mistakes—especially my own—and I wish I could tell my younger self that it's okay. Forgiveness is so important; it’s the only way to grow and become better.Finish this sentence: “Pi Beta Phi has taught me...”
Pi Beta Phi has taught me how to step out of my comfort zone and embrace the unknown.How has your Pi Phi experience helped you feel a sense of belonging?
Being in Pi Phi has helped me embrace my most authentic self. Spending time with this group of funny, smart, confident and all-around amazing women has pushed me to be the truest version of myself. I've been able to stand strong and be real, which has made my college experience even better.I didn't always feel comfortable being my most authentic self. There were times when I held back out of fear of not fitting in or being judged. But Pi Phi helped me grow out of that fear. The support and encouragement from my sisters gave me the confidence to step into my own and embrace who I truly am. This growth has been transformative, making my collegiate experience richer and more fulfilling.
Can you share a moment in Pi Phi when you felt seen or valued for who you are?
Preference Ceremony my junior year. The way my sisters supported me after I became emotional talking to a Potential New Member who looked up to me made me feel so loved. It meant so much that they understood just how special that moment was—and they took it in with me, making me feel like the most cared-for person in the world.#WeArePiPhi celebrates recognition days and awareness months while sharing personal stories from our members. Share your story to connect with sisters and represent the holidays and traditions special to you.
Published October 29, 2025